“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.” – Frank Herbert, Dune
The world is full of scary things: potential nuclear war, failing infrastructures, clowns (shiver). You can either let your fear overwhelm you or you can recognize the enemy within these fears. This conspirator creeps in the shadows of the unknown. It thrives in social media negativity. Worry and frustration are its greatest weapons. I’m speaking of Distraction. It’s coming for you and your creative dreams.
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Fight back! Don’t let your fear distract you from achieving those creative dreams. They’re
important. For every creative dream achieved, a new one is born. You are an inspiration to someone. They look to you to lead the way. Don’t let them or yourself down.
Let Go! Understand there is very little in this world you hold sway over. Focus on the things you can control: your emotions, your reactions, your creativity and will
Be Fearless! So what if you fail? Put a bandage on that scraped knee and try again. You are a warrior!
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I have a special gift. My creative brain is a master at dreaming up excuses NOT to write. Something about an underdeveloped outline sends my thoughts drifting. My intentions on meeting those daily writing goals are good. I just space off every once in a while.
Time wasters and distractions are the devil. These seemingly harmless saboteurs keep you from meeting your small goals. Miss those small goals and ultimately risk failing to achieve your dream. Avoid these saboteurs at all costs! Well – until you’ve finished your work anyway. Everybody needs some down time to relax.
Common Time Wasters:
- Visual Enticements – Netflix, Hulu and You Tube
- Mental Wastelands – Reality TV, FB, Twitter and other social media sites
- Emotional Swamps – Gossip, office and other politics, participating in drama when you should be writing
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See those little devil horns and pitch forks? Ignoring them is hard, but necessary. Here are a few steps to help you stay focused. Full Disclosure: I’m not always successful at ignoring my own little devils. We all have moments of laziness or lack of commitment. Don’t beat yourself up if you fail. Try again tomorrow. Do better.
- Plan daily goals
- Set a time each day to work
- Make a commitment to honor the promises you make to yourself
- TURN OFF THE TV and STAY OFF THE INTERNET while you are supposed to be working
Thoughts are like water buckets waiting to be filled. One bucket holds positive thoughts we use to inspire our dreams and give us confidence. The other bucket contains negative thoughts from the droning self-doubts we whisper to ourselves each day.
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Each thought, act or wish puts a little water into a bucket. As the positive bucket spills over, it washes us with creative energy. We accomplish our goals and feel good about the work we’ve done.
If the negative bucket fills first, we are drenched in dirty, putrid fluid. The stain upon our self-confidence is nearly impossible to clean away. It can take years to overcome just one splash from this bucket.
As we head into the new year, think about the words you whisper to yourself. Are they kind and encouraging? Or are you dragging the smelly bucket of negative thoughts into the new year?
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From me and mine to you and yours
Happy New Year,
Writers are given a sacred trust to share the truths we are given. Do we decide what those truths are? Nope. And sometimes it gets very uncomfortable putting our sacred trust out there. Not everyone wants to hear the truth.
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I’ll share one of my ultimate truths with you now: Words have power. They are neither good nor evil. Words are tools in the hand of the person who chooses to use them. Intent is everything. This is why writers must be careful about how they use their words. Are you sending out messages that inspire and encourage? Or are you spreading falsehoods and hatred?
Words are ideas. They have the power to change lives. Use them wisely.
In this special season, I want to share a quote (and modernize it a bit to fit our world today)
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Peace on Earth. Good will toward ALL men, women, children, animals and most especially – our home, Earth.
From me and mine to you and yours,
Best Wishes for Peace, Hope and Joy
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If your life is anything like mine, everybody is hounding you to “get something done for me” before the holiday break. Then there is the unfinished gift shopping. Stress, stress, stress and more stress.
“Hold it! Enough. Celebrate the holidays rather than dread them.”
Peppermint – Elixir of the Gods
You think I’m kidding, don’t you? Peppermint has amazing healing properties. It’s an anti-inflammatory, invigorates and can help with digestion. I use peppermint oil along with lemon oil to refresh my house in winter.
While oils are well and good, nothing gives you that peppermint pep like actually digesting peppermint. For a mood boost, try:
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Candy Canes and other Hard Candies
Peppermint Brownies (I use peppermint extract. If you like using peppermint oil, please make sure it is the edible kind!)
Not everyone is into Mint. Here are some other options to help you kindle that holiday cheer:
Our old friend – Baileys
Fruit Cake (Not my thing)
Pick your holiday cheer. Savor it and forget the stressful stuff. Focus instead on the good things in your life. These are the things you’ll carry into the new year.
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I love this time of year. Negativity takes a back seat. Everyone is a little brighter and lighter (in the heart anyway). The Joy of the Season changes attitudes like magic. We’re nicer to one another. Kindness and generosity rule the day. I keep this happy hypothesis by limiting my time at the malls between Nov 23 and Jan 5th.
Embracing the JOY is the opportunity to renew our spirits and shake off difficulties from the past year. It gives us new (and hopefully positive) perspective on our lives and the world about us.
How can you use this December Joy to fuel your creative energy?
Wear your new positive perspective like a pair of
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See a creative project you’ve been working on with a new hue.
OR use your magic glasses to begin something completely new.
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